That Chinese Lady Is Distinct (part 1)

In my experiences vacationing and living overseas in China, I have met numerous young western gentlemen who believe they could get any Chinese lady they like, just because they are foreign. This is a common mis-assumption among western guys; many young men think that their appearance or the reality they speak English means they are an important commodity in China. Well, just like in the US, you will find easy girls and there are the true girls that you'd like to date or maybe marry, but what is important is you know that Chinese girls aren't like western ladies.

There are two elements that will be important to your accomplishment with that Chinese lady you have had your eye on: the first impression and building a romantic relationship. Everybody knows that first impressions do a lot, but with Chinese women it can be everything. There is a saying in Chinese, xianrùwéizhu (The first impression is most important), which suggests that first impressions are the most potent or most important time toward influencing someone. The manner you dress, the way you carry yourself, and especially what you say to her will decide if she likes to continue talking to you or see you again.

Once you know you wish to continue meeting this Chinese lady and you desire to make her your sweetheart, you should keep taking her out to create a relationship. Now these may seem like dates, and in all equity they're, but to the girl you are just developing a romantic relationship and nothing erotic will emerge of it. Do not even expect to try getting a kiss until a couple of dates or a few weeks into the relationship. Until she affirms and considers you are officially together, forcing something sexual can kill the romantic relationship. Go with her for fun on Saturday to the shopping mall or the movies, like a regular date, and be respectful. Your Chinese woman will bear in mind how kind you're to her.

The first few weeks with the Chinese woman definitely will seem tiring! You can't ever let your shield down and constantly be at your 100%. The first impression would get her to see you once again and then you should assemble the building blocks for a romantic relationship. My good advice is to simply never let yourself slip up. Do not ever do or say something you must ponder the implications of. If you're careful and take the very first stages seriously, then you will not need to panic about your Chinese girl in the long-run.